One of the most important decisions you will make is choosing your doctor. Different doctors have different approaches to birth, and these can have an enormous impact on your experience of birth. Read the stories of women who have grappled with the decision of which doctor to choose.

Meghan's story
Meghan wanted to have her second baby at home, as she had had her first in London, but when she first started to explore her options in Singapore, she encountered a great deal of misinformation and discouraging responses. After pursuing many leads, Meghan at last found a doctor who fit well with the kind of medical support she wanted for her birth.

Joelle's story
Joelle had her fourth baby exactly the way she had wanted it to be. Her first two births in the Philippines were under twilight sleep and she was unconscious for both. Her third birth was an induction with no pain-relieving drugs used. Joelle's amazing journey during her fourth pregnancy included her decision to change doctors the day before she went into labour.

Liz's story
Liz had the labour she always imagined - she used several comfort measures and had wonderful support from her husband and doula. She coped beautifully and felt strong and in control. But after many hours with no progress, Liz and her husband Jimmy chose to have a caesarean. They found their entire experience positive and affirming.

Kara's story (Avery's birth)
Kara was planning a vaginal birth after a caesarean (VBAC) for her second baby, but experienced complications during labour and had a repeat caesarean birth. This time, however, her caesarean was a far more positive experience.

Liliana's story
Liliana's second birth was a rollercoaster of emotion. She describes it beautifully – an empowering and intense experience.